Hello there friend!
Today I thought I’d share one thing that has saved my sanity as a mom many times. I regret to say that this is not earth-shattering – it’s actually pretty simple. But I’d like to think it’s still pretty smart, haha. 😉
Are you ready for it?
Drum roll please . . . .
Here it is:
My Sanity Saver For Moms: Get your kids accustomed to having a short, independent play time / book time on a regular basis.
Boom.
That’s it. That’s what saves my sanity.
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What We Do
Back when I only had Caleb I would put him in his bed to play for about a half an hour most mornings. This started after he’d dropped his morning nap. He knew it wasn’t nap time because I always selected various toys and board books for him to have and often played fun music for him during that time as well. I used those thirty-ish minutes to get some things done, read my Bible, or maybe just drink some hot coffee and relax a few minutes.
Once Sofia was born I felt so grateful that Caleb was in the habit of this little playtime – it was super helpful just to have him contained for a bit (you boy moms understand!)
Now days we do a little morning “book time” several times a week – usually on days when we’re home all morning and the kids and I both need a little breather. Sofia plays or looks at books in the pack and play in my bedroom and Caleb does the same in his room.
This quiet time has also turned into the kids’ morning snack time which is pretty much always apple slices (a relatively non-messy snack that I don’t mind them eating in the bedrooms.)
Again, their quiet time is usually around a half an hour, though if Caleb eats his snack extra fast he will generally pop out a few times to see if the time is up yet. 😉
Why We Do It
It’s good for the kids
- It gives them a (sometimes much needed) little break from each other!
- It gives them a good opportunity to learn to enjoy books and “reading” (even if they’re nowhere close to actually reading yet.)
- It encourages independent play. Mommy can’t always be the entertainer so independent play is important to learn!
It’s good for me
Yep, I’m not ashamed to say it! Sometimes mama just needs a little break from all the crazy.
Obviously, what works for us right now will not always work for us. Part of being a mom is constantly adjusting to your kids’ changing needs.
This fall I plan to keep up the morning quiet time for Sofia and use that time to focus on some simple pre-k learning with Caleb (depending on the new baby’s schedule of course!)
Later on, once the kids are older and ready to drop their afternoon naps (thank goodness we haven’t reached this point yet!) we’ll probably do a longer afternoon quiet time instead of having one in the morning.
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So, do you do something like this with your kids? What is one thing that you do do on a regular basis that helps save your sanity? Share your tips with us in the comments!
